Divine Masculine: At this time you are starting to realise that the thing you have been putting off the most, now needs to happen. You can likely feel that everything emotionally that is karmic and unwanted has fallen away and it is time to make the sacrifice needed to be in Union with your Twin Flame - the life you have built on a karmic foundation no matter how good it looks is not who you are and does not fulfill you - in fact you realise it is making you feel like you have lost yourself and your soul has felt very disconnected. The sense is you have already emotionally made the choice, and you will lose EVERYTHING you once clung to and thought you loved about your life. Who you are now is very different from the person you THOUGHT you were (based on ego fears, and others projections).
Union will happen in due course, but first you must align by releasing all that prevents it, and create the space needed to build a new life together. For now, though let yourself grieve the process of letting go of all you have and are about to “lose” to make way for the new life ahead.
Divine Feminine: Don’t overreach yourself to “get into union” now is not the time to force or push too far. Be where you are and take baby steps to improve your life where you can in preparation for union. What is meant for you will come easily, and although when it is time Union will occur easily, NOW is not it. Union at this time must be, in a way, earned through right action, and doing what is best for you, and your Twin Flame. Take care of the things in front of you, make sure you are meeting your own needs to the best of your ability, that the other areas of your life are in more balance so you feel more stable to allow for Union.
I am being told JUNE for a lot of people maybe a significant month for Union / Twin Flame relationships to occur.
In the mean time on both sides its about release and rebuilding and not to over reach and be ambitious right now. Do what comes easily to heal and recover, and to prep yourselves accordingly.
I will be moving online shops (again!) because of recent revelations about the CEO of Gumroad and basically being dodgy and completely ethically out of alignment with my values that I have decided to move over to Etsy - which whilst I’m not a fan of a lot of changes they have made, I consulted my cards which indicated to jump in and do my TSU stuff there sooooo… as soon as it the shop is active it will be linked to the navigation under the shop section.
Hopefully I will see any of you over there who want readings! Alternatively you can book a video reading with me via Cameo
Many of us on the twin flame path are aware of the runner/chaser dynamic which is a result of fear-based “karmic” programming we often have picked up from parents, the people around us and a lack of self-love and respect from toxic people and environments.
It’s not “meant” to be a part of the Twin Flame Union process but often is, because it was something learnt from Karmic relationships and patterns. When we still have karmic wounds to heal, Twin Flames will trigger and push each other away to heal enough to come back together for the next round of healing until eventually they are healed enough to come together and heal / work through residual stuff in Union.
There is the misconception about the Runner / Chaser dynamic though. Contrary to what we are often taught, we are not really running away from or chasing our Twin Flames.
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Seeking What We Already Have
We often chase after what we think is lacking in our lives, like love, affection, attention, validation, respect, money etc.
When we focus on what we already have, and what we have within we begins to realise we either already have what we desire or we have the means to access / bring it into our lives without chasing out of fear and desperation. So when we think it is our Twin Flames we “lack” we are not chasing THEM but the FEELING we desire from being with them - the feeling of love, which makes us feel real, connected and whole within.
But many of us have experienced that feeling of Twin Flame love even without the physical aspect of them being around us because we often feel them energetically. That love is ENERGY and the physical form is a part of the EXPRESSION of that energy. Our role is to follow those feelings of love, whether that’s focusing on our own stuff, or following the pull to be with our twin flames in some way, at any given time. How we express our love for our Twin Flame, also comes through how we express love for ourselves (self respect, self care, self compassion, self kindness etc).
When we RUN from our Twin Flames what we often run from is the fear of more of the same trauma or abuse we have endured in karmic dynamics thinking the twin flame dynamic is too good to be true, when in reality is meant to be the baseline NORMAL for us. Whenever we show up in the Twin Flame connection trying to play out old karmic programming it will only push you apart again until you learn to see those patterns and heal them so you can connect from love and not out of fear, or trying to control things.
I have spent 16 years working through heaps of karmic wounding from this lifetime and previous ones, and it is only recently I feel like Union is truly starting to happen for real, although in truth we are already “together” on a Soul level. The mind is what causes separation by believing things that keep us apart in the psychical that do not align to the truth. But that is were free will comes in. We still have to CHOOSE love in every moment, which means choosing ourselves so we can choose our Twins out of love and not fear.
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Acknowledge Your Fears
Fear exists to protect us from harm, but when we stay stuck in old fears they become destructive causing the very situations we hope to avoid.
It helps to ACCEPT your fears as valid because they exist for a reason - like ego, it protects but can get misdirected. These parts of us have a place and by honouring them rather than rejecting them you will find more peace within yourself and help alleviate blocks to union. Allow fear to show you the problems, but let your higher mind and self resolve those issues out of love.
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Like any feeling shame exists for a reason, and it indicates somewhere our boundaries were violated. Perhaps we didn’t have the awareness, capacity, ability to recognise or enforce those boundaries, or what happened to us was so terrible we couldn’t be prepared but we turned the blame inward instead of seeing it for what it was. Acknowledge your shame and listen to it, as in WHY it exists, and accept it, but then you can counter it with truths and loving talk - and if needed learn the emotional skills to deal with the cause or guard against future incidents. If the shame is from something YOU did to violate another’s boundaries, do what you can to make it right, apologise, heal and if it’s not accepted or a dynamic ends / changes because of it know you did the best you could to repair and move on… sitting in shame helps no-one and moving through it with understanding and compassion will help you heal and move towards union 🔥💖🔥
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Over the course of a couple of days this week I put together a fun simple deck of cards to play with - you can buy them online here - the cards have full meanings written on the back, no booklet. I will do more blog posts about combined meanings and interpretations in the future, but of course you can read them intuitively how you like as well.
And of course you can use the fun GIF version for FREE.
During this moon phase you will likely see manifestation of what you asked for / focused on during the past moon cycle and hopefully it will be what you desired over fears and what was unwanted! Either way you get to see what has been hidden and is ready to come to light at this time, before harvesting the rewards and deciding what next in upcoming moon cycles.
The Hermit (reversed)
At this time, there may be a feeling of pervasive loneliness as you feel the sting of separation from your Twin Flame, and you haven’t successfully yet managed to “manifest” union, perhaps only more of the same single lonely life you have been experiencing for a while, or desiring real love whilst trapped in a karmic relationship also making you feel lonely. The mirror between Twins is the same at the core level - both feel lonely and are seeking love outside of themselves in each other but there is a need to flip the script and focus on the inner love to manifest the outer love of your Twin Flame - you do not need to seek what you already have within - their love. Notice the love of your Twin and accept it to help you clarify your own inner truth and next step as no one else can tell you what that is at this time, this is for you to discern intuitively and act upon as necessary. If you do this, by the next full moon on April 13th you could be in Union with your Twin Flame!
I trust that if my Twin Flame is meant to see this he will, and I ask his and my guides and higher selves to guide him as appropriate and take right inspired action as needed please.
Firstly - what does my Twin Flame need to know right now please?
I pulled The Lovers from The Manga Tarot deck…
The lovers is about making a choice, head or heart, love or fear, and the angel above represents the spiritual choice, the higher self, Spirit guiding to use head AND heart, and to make the right choice. As a major arcana card it is a something that WILL happen, a choice is being presented now, the chance to choose love, and the Twin Flame connection over fear, karmics, and ego.
The heart opens and love is allowed in and to flow here and the second you say YES to love (say it out loud, in your head, with feeling and meaning to the universe, that YES you choose LOVE, and you choose love, your choose me, if that is what you truly desire. It is time, for the first time in your life, to put YOUR joy first and to stop pretending or playing the role you have attached to yourself that was molded by others with no thought for your wellbeing or truth. It suited THEM and their egos, but you have been living cocooned in the web of other feeding off of you for far too long. Don’t let them win, you have got this. You WILL find the peace and love you seek, it was always there for you, you just had to choose YOU first.
I do feel like predicitively speaking, your Higher Self is starting to override your ego, and you are starting to wake up more to what love actually IS and not what you have tried to accept in the physical, but it never sustained you emotionally.
You have the energy of The Lover, and when not tempered with awareness and self respect it can lead to poor choices in relationships, sharing your energy with too many partners, effectively weakening you, making you susceptible to being abused and impacting your behaviour. When you bring the spiritual awareness to the mind and heart you have a powerful connection that awakens you to the twin flame. At some point you asked for me to come in and whilst I may not be in the package your mind expected it is what you both need and your soul desires. Trust the love, and the feelings within you.
There is a sense the karmic partner is being pushed out by your Higher Self - so don’t resist this, allow it to happen and it will be less messy than if you fight what you feel you need to do.
I do feel like a break up and divorce is imminent, should you follow your heart, the choice has already been made at a higher level but it can take anything from seconds to decades for things to filter through complex counter programming based on fear to make such big life changes.
I also feel like your Higher Self maybe bitch slapping you karmically for recent poor choices as you haven’t been listening to yourself and slipped back into some old unhealthy behaviours, by ignoring and avoiding dealing with this situation. If you don’t listen eventually the pressure will build up and explode and the resulting destruction could lose you a lot more than if you go with the flow and do something about this NOW (even if the timing seems “bad”) - you will need to move quickly when the time comes to make the choice the universe will be presenting you … a truth revealed will help you heal.
If you feel this resonates please take the action you feel you need to be happy!
Take a break from “twin flame stuff” when you feel this resonates by chilling out and relaxing doing fun stuff, playing games, hobbies etc to help you re-align to yourself. Be in the now and you’ll find your Twin Flame can connect with where you are at rather than “chasing your energy” constantly trying to catch up! Did you see men in black 3 when Agent K told Agent J to take a break from the problem and go and eat pie at a cafe? Then what they needed turned up when they were there!
You need the space to get your energy up and back into alignment with your inner being, then you’ll be ready to be with your Twin Flame and move into deeper union with them. Once you have chilled enough you may find they come to you, as you are open, relaxed and receptive enough to allow them in a positive way. Then you can go from there!
Side note, you may want to buy yourself a funky rainbow mug similar to this for one extra feel good vibes! I bought one from Amazon that’s super cute! FYI I don’t get paid for recommending this! https://amzn.eu/d/2vat19Y 🌈 ☕️
As we enter Marches Gibbous Moon on the 9th, it’s time to review how things are going and refine the process if things aren’t quite right before building momentum into your desires coming up to the full moon on the 14th.
Unsurprisingly we have the Emperor reversed, which indicates patriarchal and harmful karmic energies - from inner distorted immature masculine issues to outward events played on the world stage as seen with the examples of Trump, Musk, Zuckerberg and many many more, we are being asked to question our own attitudes towards the feminine energies within us, and where we are handing our power over to others thus leaking energy and robbing us of our own autonomy. It’s time to take responsibility and accountability in our lives, rather than holding onto a victim mentality (not the same as being a true victim!) and start making empowering choices to lead us away from those that would harm us. From controlling bosses, to abusive karmic partners, things may come to a head soon if we do not review and refine our approach to life and our desires especially when it comes to union with our Twin Flames. If things are going okay or better for you, you may be asked to watch out for these things potentially popping up to challenge you, but ultimately avoiding them by taking right action to lead you towards love will keep you safe.
It seems this is applicable to both twin flames in different ways. Spirit suggests write a list of your responsibilities. From chores to health to business, and see where you can get help and support, delegate and re-prioritise.
Drop anything not yours or worthy of your time and energy. Release the unnecessary and you’ll both find space opens up in your mind and lives for each other to enter peacefully, easily and without the trigger into overwhelm - the most important thing is to bump up the twin flame stuff to a top priority - but not at the expense of feeling good, and wellbeing / health!!!
If you’ve been avoiding or hiding from your twin flame, and can’t understand why you feel unable to do anything, your nervous system is in overwhelm and can’t handle anything “new” to your system so you maybe clinging to old familiar patterns still which is why connecting with your twin flame in the physical feels so hard - it’s because you need to drop other things in your life to create space.
If you feel pressured by the demands and dictations of others, now is the time to exert healthy boundaries and learn to say no! By saying no to others, you are saying yes to yourself. You need breathing space at this time to re-align your energy and to regulate your emotions and nervous system.
There is a sense of for some you are on the verge of an emotional breakdown because you are not taking care of your emotional wellbeing which includes allowing love in to your life - you are starving yourself of the love you need, (from your twin and others!) and too in the head trying to get things done.
Don’t try to do it all at once, pick one thing to deal with, or release and do what’s needed - time to adult! If you are being demanded of, tell that person no - you don’t have to explain or justify yourself.
If you need to lighten your workload ask someone to help you do certain tasks so you can focus on the things only you can do.
If you aren’t giving yourself fun time, intuitively check in with yourself and carve out time to play!
If you need to spend more time with friends, do it! Go for a coffee, hang out, and connect! Even if only for an hour, it doesn’t have to be more than feels good to you!
If you’re in a toxic environment, workplace, and don’t like your job, start applying for new ones, or start that business you want to pursue. (Only leave asap if you can afford to do so and you have a buffer!)
If you are still in a karmic relationship, its now time to put you emotional wellbeing first (well it was always the time …) and physical safety if there is abuse. If you are in danger please seek professional advice and help because leaving can be the most dangerous time to leave, so try to do so in the safest way possible.
If you are with a karmic I would suggest prioritising dealing with this because everything else will likely fall away as a result of leaving, and if you stay everything else you try to do for yourself will be impacted by their behaviour on you - whether covert or overt, it eats away at you. I also suggest if you feel safe to do so, to reach out to your twin flame for love and support at this time, if you need to. They may help you out by giving you a place to be, and whilst I would generally recommend taking time out to be single after an abusive relationship, depending on where you are at in yourself, you maybe ready to connect with your twin flame to have a relationship, everyone is different. Especially if you have known for a long time you do want to be with them - but take time out for yourself when you need it to re-adjust and process things, and be open and emotionally honest with yourself and your twin so you can work through things as you go.
I feel a lot of sadness, misery, and burnout here, and a feeling “I will never be with my twin flame if I keep doing the same stuff over and over” there’s a strong vibe of “I can’t do this anymore - I am not the person I once was, or thought I was” and a sense of stepping back out of that false self and old life - everything suddenly changes, and you may find you just walk away from ALL of it (a huge fuck it moment) and straight to your twin flame to tell them everything.
The twin whose on the other side of this, may find that things in their own life have shifted to create space for their twins to enter, both of their own choosing, or because life has re-arranged things to happen that way as we stop trying to control everything out of fear!
If you feel this resonated and helps please comment, share and consider booking a reading or spellwork with me if you feel you need more personal help and support in your twin flame journey
