Twin Flame New Moon Reading

 

This New Moon 🌑 as we look at the energies for the part of the Twin Flame collective who feel these cards are relevant we have The Hanged One for the Divine Feminine: indicating that whilst we may have felt stuck and unable to move forward in the connection, this is because a point of view must be turned on its head for us to move forward. This perspective shift will change everything but it will bring us peace and a broader view on things that allow for us to take accept the greater truth of the twin flame connection and allow ourselves to accept all the good things, the love and their side of things too!

For the Divine Masculine: You have the 7 of cups, indicating a need to stop and wait for the right choice to be recognised, using head and heart - not to jump in based of an emotional reaction, or make choices based on what you THINK is a good idea. There are a lot of ways you are perhaps considering approaching your Twin Flame with an emotional offer but only one way is going to work, as long as you come at it from a head / heart perspective. There are a lot of “false” emotional offers around too, you may find you have a lot of people declaring feelings for you, but they are not based on real love, and are wrapped up in poisonous, or confused intents. Your Twin Flame is the only real solid offer and truth, but you have to trust your intuition an utilised mind and feelings together to recognise this. You may already know who your Twin Flame IS, but are feeling confused because you have been living your life a certain way (could be religion, sexuality, gender expression) and they don’t “conform” to the labels you have adopted and require you to go beyond those labels and expand, or be more fluid - not in way that is untrue to who you are, but in fact correctly reflects your true self. It is in this you realise you need to drop the labels you were using that confined you and boxed you in to either use no label, or choose one that better fits who you feel you are NOW. Regardless of labels, it is about the LOVE. 

Both sides require a period of waiting whilst feelings and thoughts align to reveal a new perspective and reality, and truth neither have either seen, or accepted even if they have seen it.

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The Dark Night Of The Soul

 

When it comes to the twin flame journey, the more seasoned of us know it is not all fluffy and light - not because that isn’t a part of it, but because we are often awakened to it when we are in the darkness and our souls need us to face our karmic wounds and deepest shadows to heal. It is common for Twin Flames to get so caught up with the physical world and how things APPEAR to be when in separation that we can become miserable, depressed and even suicidal. Know that these things are NOT because of you and your Twin Flame, but because of old wounds that are influencing our perception, and thus experience of the connection. Admitting to what we are feeling, is the first step. I felt angry, and hurt, abandoned and suicidal when my Twin Flame after appearing to be responding to my energy positively (albeit whilst still with a karmic) suddenly married the karmic one day. I had predicted this several months earlier that he would be married that year but I didn’t specifically get it was his karmic. I was absolutely devastated and I didn’t reacted well to it, the anger lasting for years afterwards. I had in the beginning of my journey many years before been told by spirit he would divorce his karmic but I thought they just mean split up as he wasn’t married - but now I realise why they specifically said divorce. However the WHEN has always been elusive to me. It is only recently when I admitted that the situation was making me feel bad and suicidal that I suddenly felt a massive relief and no longer so “obsessed” by the situation and him. I’d. been holding myself back by not admitting the truth - not about my feelings for him, but about how bad the situation was impacting me. Now I feel more able to focus on myself again and be more open to the connection without getting as triggered and taking things so personally. 

Doing the “Shadow-Work” is essential, meaning to admit and accept when we are in pain, and to let ourselves “feel it to heal it” - not to bypass, or force the healing process, but to allow how we feel to be what it is, to treat ourselves with compassion, kindness and gentleness as we move through the pain to the place we need to be afterwards to find the release and relief from karmic wounding, and find the love, joy and appreciation in our lives again, and THEN we can align to our Twin Flame path mutually and meet each other in LOVE.

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Bex

Full Moon Twin Flame Reading

 

Divine Masculine: At this time you are starting to realise that the thing you have been putting off the most, now needs to happen. You can likely feel that everything emotionally that is karmic and unwanted has fallen away and it is time to make the sacrifice needed to be in Union with your Twin Flame - the life you have built on a karmic foundation no matter how good it looks is not who you are and does not fulfill you - in fact you realise it is making you feel like you have lost yourself and your soul has felt very disconnected. The sense is you have already emotionally made the choice, and you will lose EVERYTHING you once clung to and thought you loved about your life. Who you are now is very different from the person you THOUGHT you were (based on ego fears, and others projections).

Union will happen in due course, but first you must align by releasing all that prevents it, and create the space needed to build a new life together. For now, though let yourself grieve the process of letting go of all you have and are about to “lose” to make way for the new life ahead.

Divine Feminine: Don’t overreach yourself to “get into union” now is not the time to force or push too far. Be where you are and take baby steps to improve your life where you can in preparation for union. What is meant for you will come easily, and although when it is time Union will occur easily, NOW is not it. Union at this time must be, in a way, earned through right action, and doing what is best for you, and your Twin Flame. Take care of the things in front of you, make sure you are meeting your own needs to the best of your ability, that the other areas of your life are in more balance so you feel more stable to allow for Union.

I am being told JUNE for a lot of people maybe a significant month for Union / Twin Flame relationships to occur.

In the mean time on both sides its about release and rebuilding and not to over reach and be ambitious right now. Do what comes easily to heal and recover, and to prep yourselves accordingly.

Namaste

Bex

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Online Shop Updates

 

Hey all!

I will be moving online shops (again!) because of recent revelations about the CEO of Gumroad and basically being dodgy and completely ethically out of alignment with my values that I have decided to move over to Etsy - which whilst I’m not a fan of a lot of changes they have made, I consulted my cards which indicated to jump in and do my TSU stuff there sooooo… as soon as it the shop is active it will be linked to the navigation under the shop section.

Hopefully I will see any of you over there who want readings! Alternatively you can book a video reading with me via Cameo

Bex

Cameo Twin Flame Readings April Offer

Book me for Twin Flame Video & DM readings at Cameo https://www.cameo.com/twinsoulunity - $20 at the moment! Limited slots available!

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The Truth About Running & Chasing

 

Running & Chasing in the Twin Flame dynamic.

Many of us on the twin flame path are aware of the runner/chaser dynamic which is a result of fear-based “karmic” programming we often have picked up from parents, the people around us and a lack of self-love and respect from toxic people and environments. 

It’s not “meant” to be a part of the Twin Flame Union process but often is, because it was something learnt from Karmic relationships and patterns. When we still have karmic wounds to heal, Twin Flames will trigger and push each other away to heal enough to come back together for the next round of healing until eventually they are healed enough to come together and heal / work through residual stuff in Union.

There is the misconception about the Runner / Chaser dynamic though. Contrary to what we are often taught, we are not really running away from or chasing our Twin Flames.

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Seeking What We Already Have

We often chase after what we think is lacking in our lives, like love, affection, attention, validation, respect, money etc.

When we focus on what we already have, and what we have within we begins to realise we either already have what we desire or we have the means to access / bring it into our lives without chasing out of fear and desperation. So when we think it is our Twin Flames we “lack” we are not chasing THEM but the FEELING we desire from being with them - the feeling of love, which makes us feel real, connected and whole within. 

But many of us have experienced that feeling of Twin Flame love even without the physical aspect of them being around us because we often feel them energetically. That love is ENERGY and the physical form is a part of the EXPRESSION of that energy. Our role is to follow those feelings of love, whether that’s focusing on our own stuff, or following the pull to be with our twin flames in some way, at any given time. How we express our love for our Twin Flame, also comes through how we express love for ourselves (self respect, self care, self compassion, self kindness etc).

When we RUN from our Twin Flames what we often run from is the fear of more of the same trauma or abuse we have endured in karmic dynamics thinking the twin flame dynamic is too good to be true, when in reality is meant to be the baseline NORMAL for us. Whenever we show up in the Twin Flame connection trying to play out old karmic programming it will only push you apart again until you learn to see those patterns and heal them so you can connect from love and not out of fear, or trying to control things.  

I have spent 16 years working through heaps of karmic wounding from this lifetime and previous ones, and it is only recently I feel like Union is truly starting to happen for real, although in truth we are already “together” on a Soul level. The mind is what causes separation by believing things that keep us apart in the psychical that do not align to the truth. But that is were free will comes in. We still have to CHOOSE love in every moment, which means choosing ourselves so we can choose our Twins out of love and not fear.

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Acknowledge Your Fears

Fear exists to protect us from harm, but when we stay stuck in old fears they become destructive causing the very situations we hope to avoid. 

It helps to ACCEPT your fears as valid because they exist for a reason - like ego, it protects but can get misdirected. These parts of us have a place and by honouring them rather than rejecting them you will find more peace within yourself and help alleviate blocks to union. Allow fear to show you the problems, but let your higher mind and self resolve those issues out of love.

If you would like my support in your Twin Flame journey and would like to know how past influences are impacting you now and how to deal with them going forward into Union please book me at https://shop.twinsoulunity.com/l/PPF1

Blessings

Bex

Blocks To Union: Shame

Blocks to Union: Shame

Like any feeling shame exists for a reason, and it indicates somewhere our boundaries were violated. Perhaps we didn’t have the awareness, capacity, ability to recognise or enforce those boundaries, or what happened to us was so terrible we couldn’t be prepared but we turned the blame inward instead of seeing it for what it was. Acknowledge your shame and listen to it, as in WHY it exists, and accept it, but then you can counter it with truths and loving talk - and if needed learn the emotional skills to deal with the cause or guard against future incidents. If the shame is from something YOU did to violate another’s boundaries, do what you can to make it right, apologise, heal and if it’s not accepted or a dynamic ends / changes because of it know you did the best you could to repair and move on… sitting in shame helps no-one and moving through it with understanding and compassion will help you heal and move towards union 🔥💖🔥 

To help transmute shame and blocks to Union try out my Cosmic Diamond Violet Flame Transmutation Meditation (Music Only) where you visualise the energy of the flame burn away what is no longer desired or needed in your energy and transmute it into better things for you (and your Twin Flame) - buy it here :https://twinsoulunity.gumroad.com/l/cdvfm1?layout=profile