Twin Flame Reading: Overload

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Overload 

It seems this is applicable to both twin flames in different ways. Spirit suggests write a list of your responsibilities. From chores to health to business, and see where you can get help and support, delegate and re-prioritise. 

Drop anything not yours or worthy of your time and energy. Release the unnecessary and you’ll both find space opens up in your mind and lives for each other to enter peacefully, easily and without the trigger into overwhelm - the most important thing is to bump up the twin flame stuff to a top priority - but not at the expense of feeling good, and wellbeing / health!!! 

If you’ve been avoiding or hiding from your twin flame, and can’t understand why you feel unable to do anything, your nervous system is in overwhelm and can’t handle anything “new” to your system so you maybe clinging to old familiar patterns still which is why connecting with your twin flame in the physical feels so hard - it’s because you need to drop other things in your life to create space.

If you feel pressured by the demands and dictations of others, now is the time to exert healthy boundaries and learn to say no! By saying no to others, you are saying yes to yourself. You need breathing space at this time to re-align your energy and to regulate your emotions and nervous system. 

There is a sense of for some you are on the verge of an emotional breakdown because you are not taking care of your emotional wellbeing which includes allowing love in to your life - you are starving yourself of the love you need, (from your twin and others!) and too in the head trying to get things done. 

Don’t try to do it all at once, pick one thing to deal with, or release and do what’s needed - time to adult! If you are being demanded of, tell that person no - you don’t have to explain or justify yourself.

If you need to lighten your workload ask someone to help you do certain tasks so you can focus on the things only you can do. 

If you aren’t giving yourself fun time, intuitively check in with yourself and carve out time to play!

If you need to spend more time with friends, do it! Go for a coffee, hang out, and connect! Even if only for an hour, it doesn’t have to be more than feels good to you!

If you’re in a toxic environment, workplace, and don’t like your job, start applying for new ones, or start that business you want to pursue. (Only leave asap if you can afford to do so and you have a buffer!)

If you are still in a karmic relationship, its now time to put you emotional wellbeing first (well it was always the time …) and physical safety if there is abuse. If you are in danger please seek professional advice and help because leaving can be the most dangerous time to leave, so try to do so in the safest way possible.

This post may help:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/invisible-bruises/202301/checklist-for-ending-a-relationship-with-a-narcissist

If you are with a karmic I would suggest prioritising dealing with this because everything else will likely fall away as a result of leaving, and if you stay everything else you try to do for yourself will be impacted by their behaviour on you - whether covert or overt, it eats away at you. I also suggest if you feel safe to do so, to reach out to your twin flame for love and support at this time, if you need to. They may help you out by giving you a place to be, and whilst I would generally recommend taking time out to be single after an abusive relationship, depending on where you are at in yourself, you maybe ready to connect with your twin flame to have a relationship, everyone is different. Especially if you have known for a long time you do want to be with them - but take time out for yourself when you need it to re-adjust and process things, and be open and emotionally honest with yourself and your twin so you can work through things as you go.

I feel a lot of sadness, misery, and burnout here, and a feeling “I will never be with my twin flame if I keep doing the same stuff over and over” there’s a strong vibe of “I can’t do this anymore - I am not the person I once was, or thought I was” and a sense of stepping back out of that false self and old life - everything suddenly changes, and you may find you just walk away from ALL of it (a huge fuck it moment) and straight to your twin flame to tell them everything.

The twin whose on the other side of this, may find that things in their own life have shifted to create space for their twins to enter, both of their own choosing, or because life has re-arranged things to happen that way as we stop trying to control everything out of fear!

If you feel this resonated and helps please comment, share and consider booking a reading or spellwork with me if you feel you need more personal help and support in your twin flame journey 

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Valentines Day Reading 2025

 

Twin Flame Reading for Twin Flames in Separation

Divine Feminine: The World

One cycle of your life is ending, a successful completion of a phase that now enables you to get out into the world and be seen in the next stage of your union process. There may have been travel involved to see your Twin Flame recently or coming up - if a situation occurs to see them, do so! The connection is asking you to both come together now to be seen as a Twin Flame pair. An improvement in life circumstances may make it easier to connect with your Twin Flame now, even if they live a world away.

Divine Masculine: 7 Swords (r)

Hmmm…this feels like a karmic partner situation has or is maybe soon to blow up, for those in separation but have a “third party” involved blocking union. This feels quite volatile, and there maybe an argument and being “caught out” by a karmic partner to do with the Twin Flame situation that you cannot back out of or deny. Disloyalty to yourself shows up by choosing a karmic, and they are often fear based connections we try to cram into a story of “love” in denial of the truth.

Whether we are trying to protect ego, or fear retribution, it seems for the masculine (and the masculine aspect of DF’s) both sides may have been or be about to be exposed in their connection by a karmic, perhaps even publically, or at least in a way that may lose (false) friendships and supporters that were built from the shaky foundations of a karmic connection. This may also lead into losing homes, jobs, and other things you have built together. 

You may also discover that your Karmic has actually been unfaithful and lying themselves and although you knew this either consciously or had fears / suspicions they are likely well founded and this may come out too. Whether the lies and infidelity on the karmic side gives you cause to leave, the fact you are aware of your own actions leading you to this moment, will give you greater empowerment to do the right thing and leave the karmic. It will be a great relief and whilst you will grieve not so much what was lost with the karmic, but what you could’ve had with your twin had you chosen from love, from the start. 

The energy between you both: Knight of coins

Physically you may both feel blocked from union because of more material circumstances like physical health, being in a physical relationship with a karmic, money issues, etc - none of these are real reasons in themselves, more like fear based “excuses” the ego clings to. With this awareness you can flip the energy and take the next step towards Union by making a choice and taking right action towards your Twin Flame (on both sides) - and suggests a physical meet up is needed / in order to start taking practical steps into union and building a real love based life together. 

Over all I would say the positivity of the feminine side and influence of the world o resides the lesser cards energies, so tap into that “building your own world with your twin flame” energy to help get you out of the blocks you perceive and help shift your mindset to a more positive framing of things.

So whatever happens - and this energy can be over the next few days or weeks either side of valentines, if you feel this resonated and comes to pass please let me know, I love to hear feedback and if you found this helpful!

Peace, love & all that jazz

Bex

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